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Oral sex - blow job, pussy licking and ass licking

  • Oral sex is when you put your tongue or mouth on the penis or vagina
  • You can also lick someone's ass using your tongue or mouth. That’s called eating ass or rimming.
  • Many clients want oral sex
  • Do you have an STI? If you do, you can sometimes still safely give a blow job, eat pussy or rim someone

Giving blow jobs

When you give a blow job, the penis goes in the mouth. 

Many clients want a blow job. This is how to do that:

  • Ask your client what they like
  • Switch what you do: kiss, suck, lick and bite gently
  • Sometimes, take the penis in the front of your mouth and sometimes a bit deeper
  • Hold onto the penis and move you hand in rhythm with your mouth. That way, it makes the client feel like you are taking the penis deep in your mouth
  • Kiss and lick the sides of the penis
  • The frenulum is very sensitive. That is the bit of skin that attaches the foreskin to the head. Your client will come faster if you lick that without taking the entire penis into your mouth
  • The same goes for the head: it is very sensitive. Your client will come faster if you lick or suck it
  • A lot of clients also enjoy it if you lick or suck their balls. Or the bit of tight skin between the balls and the anus

How can you give a blow job safely?

Do you want to give or receive a blow job? This is how to do it safely:

  • Use a condom 
  • Are you unable to use a condom? 
    • Make sure you don’t get any sperm in your mouth
    • Don’t take the penis too deep into your throat
    • Are you getting a blow job? Do not come in the client’s mouth

Do you have an STI? Or other complaints on your vagina or penis? If you do, you can usually still give blow jobs. You can continue to work and earn money. In that case, it is additionally important that you do it safely. A condom does not offer full protection against all STIs. Some STIs can also be outside the condom. Herpes, for example. Do you or your client have a cold sore? Do not give each other a blow job. 

  • Does the client have herpes on their penis? Do not give a blow job
  • Do you have herpes on your penis? Don’t get a blow job 

Read more about STIs

Eating pussy

Pussy licking is putting your mouth or tongue on the vagina and clitoris. 

A client may also ask if they can eat your pussy. That can be pleasant. You don’t have to do a lot yourself and if the client is good at it, it feels nice.

Some clients have rough fingers. Pussy eating may feel nicer than fingering if they do.

Your client can also ask you to eat her pussy. This is how to do that:

  • Ask your client what they like
  • Switch what you do: kiss, suck, lick and bite very gently
  • Kiss and lick at different spots: near the clitoris, the labia and in that area
  • The clitoris is very sensitive. Your client will come faster if you focus the licking on it
  • You can also use your fingers while eating pussy. For example, you gentle put them into the vagina and make softer or harder movements

How can you eat pussy safely?

Do you want to eat pussy or do you want someone to eat yours? In that case, it’s better to use a dental dam. This reduces your risk of STIs.  

You don’t have a dental dam? You can also use plastic wrap from the supermarket. That is thinner than most dental dams. That way, you can feel what you are doing better. Make sure you don’t get microwave plastic wrap: it has little holes in it. You can also cut open a condom and use it as a dental dam.

Do you have an STI? Or other complaints on your vagina or penis? If you do, you can still eat pussy. You can continue to work and earn money. 
In that case, it is additionally important that you do it safely. A dental dam does not offer full protection against all STIs. Herpes may also be present outside the dental dam. 

  • Do you or your client have a cold sore? Do not eat each other’s pussy. 
  • Does the client have herpes on the vagina? Do not lick the vagina. 
  • Do you have herpes on your vagina? Don’t let anyone eat your pussy

Read more about STIs

Rimming

Licking someone’s anus is called eating ass or rimming.
Some clients would like you to rim them. This is how to do that:

  • Make sure the client is clean
  • Ask your client what they like
  • Lick along the edge of the anus
  • Push the tip of your tongue into the anus
  • Switch up what you do
  • You can use your hands to touch the client’s penis or vagina while you lick their anus

How can you rim safely?

You can get STIs through ass licking. Use a dental dam or a condom that has been cut open.

You don’t have a dental dam? You can also use plastic wrap from the supermarket. That is thinner than most dental dams. That way, you can feel what you are doing better. Make sure you don’t get microwave plastic wrap: it has little holes in it.

Do you have an STI? If you do, you can still lick ass. You can continue to work and earn money. In that case, it is additionally important that you do it safely. A dental dam does not offer full protection against all STIs. Some STIs can also be outside the dental dam. Herpes, for example.

  • Do you or your client have a cold sore? Do not lick each other. 
  • Does the client have herpes on their anus? Don’t lick the anus. 
  • Do you have herpes on your anus? Don’t let anyone lick you

Read more about STIs

Question about oral sex?

  • Aids STI Helpline

    Do you have a question about STIs or about an STI test? Contact us at the Aids STI Helpline: 
    0900 - 204 2040.

    Costs € 0,10 cent p.m.
    Calling is possible on Mon - Tue - Wed from 9.30-15.30hr and on Thu & Fri from 13.30-15.30.
    Whatsapp is available from 9.00-17.00hr.
    Chatting is available from 13.30-17.30hr.
  • Chat anonimously

    You can also chat with the Aids STI Helpline.
    You will get reliable advice about an STI test and safe sex.

    Chat anonimously

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