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Sex toys

  • There are a lot of different toys you can use during sex
  • Sex toys can make your work easier and nicer
  • You don’t have a penis? In that case, you can fuck your client using a dildo
  • It is important for you to keep your sex toys properly clean.
  • That will prevent you from getting an STI.

How do you use them?

There are sex toys in all shapes and sizes. The most common sex toys are:

  • Dildo: these usually look like a penis. You can put the dildo into your vagina or anus or the client’s.
  • Strap-on: you can attach these to yourself. That way, you can fuck your client if you don’t have a penis.
  • Vibrator: a vibrating sex toy. You can put this in your client’s anus or vagina. Or hold it against the client’s penis or clitoris. Or your own
  • Butt plug: a sex toy for in the anus. The back is round and wider than the rest of the toy. That’s important. Otherwise, you might not be able to remove the toy from your ass
  • Whip: you can use this to hit your client if they want you to. Some whips have soft strands and others have a sturdier end. A whip can be part of S and M: sex that is rougher and wilder. Read more about S and M

Advantages of sex toys

Sex toys can make your work easier, nicer and safer:

  • You can make your client come faster using a vibrator. And you can arouse yourself using one.
  • Do you want a client to not touch you a lot? In that case, you can put on a show using your toys. That way, you determine what you do and how far you go. Your client becomes aroused without you touching each other
  • Are you not touching each other? In that case, you also can’t get an STI

Keep your sex toys clean

It is important for you to keep your sex toys clean. Are you not doing this? In that case, you can get an STI. Or other complaints, such as a bladder infection.

This is how to keep your sex toys clean:

  • Always put a condom on the dildo or the vibrator
  • Clean the sex toy properly after each client:
    • Wash it using soap and water
    • Rinse it off and allow it to dry
    • Clean the sex toy using a disinfectant
    • Wash leather toys using soap and water and disinfect them using alcohol (70%). This will keep the leather soft
    • Disinfect metal toys using alcohol (70%)

Question about sex toys?

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    Do you have a question about STIs or about an STI test? Contact us at the Aids STI Helpline: 
    0900 - 204 2040.

    Costs € 0,10 cent p.m.
    Calling is possible on Mon - Tue - Wed from 9.30-15.30hr and on Thu & Fri from 13.30-15.30.
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    Chatting is available from 13.30-17.30hr.
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    You can also chat with the Aids STI Helpline.
    You will get reliable advice about an STI test and safe sex.

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