More for men

Are you a man, and do you do sex work? Some men find it difficult to find good information about their work. That is why we have collected useful links on this page, especially for male sex workers.

Much of the information is written for all men who work in the sex industry. Some information is specifically for sex workers with a penis. There is also a page specifically for trans people.

Of course, this site also contains a lot of other information for all sex workers, whether you are male, female, non-binary, or something else. For example, you can read about your mental health. Or about organizations that can help you.

About your body

It is important to take good care of your body. Especially if you do sex work. Below, you will find links to information about physical health. Such as how to keep your penis and anus clean in a healthy way. For example, would you like to know how to clean your ass before sex? You can read about that under A healthy anus.

Types of sex

Sex between two men can be different from sex between women. For example because you both have a penis. There are also other forms of sex that are popular, such as fisting or CBT (cock and ball torture). And men are more likely to have anal sex with each other. In the links below, you can read more about these forms of sex, and how to do them in a safe and enjoyable way.

Working as a sex worker

Perhaps someone has offered you money for sex. For example, via Grindr. If you do this, it is a form of sex work. Would you like to do sex work more often or more frequently? Then it is wise to know how to do this safely and properly. Think about how to start your own business. Or how paying taxes works. And where you can and are allowed to work. You can find more information about this in the links below.

Safety

Pay dates are often fun. However, some clients can be unpleasant or even dangerous. Do you want to keep yourself as safe as possible? Read the tips in the links below.
Do you want to check whether a client has been aggressive in the past? Or have you had a dangerous client yourself? Then register for free at Ugly Mugs Nederland (www.uglymugs.nl).

Other good websites for men

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